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Updated: 5/11/06 |
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Goffstown
Like a switch was turned off
Goffstown family appreciates the joys and deals with disappointments of autism
By Rod Hansen
Neil Hiltz likes to ask questions. Lots of them. The 10-year-old Bartlett Elementary School fourth-grader might ask, in rapid-fire succession, the make, model and year of a visitor’s car; why the car has four doors rather than two, and how fast the car can go on the highway. He might switch topics entirely, and ask if the visitor has any brothers or sisters. How old are they? Neil Hiltz is polite and respectful, and touchingly affectionate toward his mother, Jayne, and his sister, Elizabeth. However, despite his impressive vocabulary and gentle demeanor, something sets Neil apart from other 10-year-old boys. Neil Hiltz is autistic. “Autism is a disorder in which a young child cannot develop normal social relationships,” according to the Merck Manual of Medical Information. The definition continues, a typical autism patient “uses language abnormally or not at all, behaves in compulsive and ritualistic ways, and may fail to develop normal intelligence.” It’s a condition Jayne Hiltz acknowledges can be difficult and sometimes frustrating. While it may explain Neil’s endearing qualities such as his curiosity and innocence, it may also lie behind more confounding aspects of his personality. For example, Neil is fascinated with vacuum cleaners – there are 21 of them tucked away in closets and odd spots throughout the house. He prizes the appliances, and eagerly shows off his collection. Relatives often send him vacuum cleaners as gifts. Neil also loves shampoo. With all their different colors and fragrances, Neil keeps bottles of the hair care product by the dozen. It’s a perplexing condition, which Jayne said probably started in Neil’s 13th month of life, when the boy abruptly withdrew into himself. Neil had been making normal childhood inroads toward walking and talking, when his progress came to a sudden and heartbreaking stop, Jayne Hiltz recalls. “It was as if someone turned off a switch one day,” Jayne writes in a short narrative of her son’s life. “Our happy chatty boy did not talk any more.” The fears of Jayne and C.J. Hiltz were confirmed when Neil was diagnosed with autism at the age of 28 months. Jayne said this change in her son occurred right around the time of Neil’s first round of childhood vaccinations, and that the two events might be more than a coincidence. The Hiltz family is part of a class action lawsuit filed in U.S. Federal Claims Court in 2002 claiming childhood vaccinations led to autism in many cases. The suit, titled Various Petitioners vs. the Department of Health and Human Services, says the thimerosal used as a preservative in vaccinations contains dangerous levels of mercury and may act as a neurological toxin. “It’s kind of a big topic in the autism community,” Jayne Hiltz said about the vaccination controversy. “I can say Neil’s autism isn’t a genetic condition – no one else on either side of our family has it.” The Hiltz family is being represented by the law firm of Shaheen and Gordon of Durham in the lawsuit. Jayne Hiltz said she hopes the lawsuit will provide answers to why her son, and thousands of other children, suddenly fell into the grip of this condition. “As parents, we’re looking for answers,” Jayne Hiltz said. “My son’s doing very well, but as an adult we don’t know if he’s going to be independent.” Although Neil’s future independence remains an open question, members of his family, his school community, and mental health professionals are working to ensure he gets the most out of life today. Jayne Hiltz credits early efforts to help her child with his current progress. Neil was involved in a home-based schooling program from the time he was 3, went to preschool for socialization at the age of 4, and continues to see a psychologist, a neurologist and receives counseling through the Mental Health Center of Greater Manchester. Neil also has been partially integrated into the classroom at Bartlett, where he works with one-on-one aid Sue Ward and autistic program teacher Kathleen Birdsey. “It’s a team effort,” Jayne Hiltz said, noting that she keeps open communication between herself and the school about Neil’s progress. She said Ward will continue to work with Neil when he goes to middle school. Neil’s education is typical of the 14 students in the school district diagnosed with autism, said Assistant Superintendent Stacy Buckley. Each student has an individualized education plan in which students are assessed on academic and social goals, with progress reports generally sent home around the time of report cards, Buckley said. The social aspects of the individualized education plans are often just as important as the academic goals, particularly as students grow older, Buckley said. This can be especially true among students with Asperger’s syndrome, a less severe form of autism in which the patient may not understand the finer points of social interaction. “Sometimes, it’s just a matter of showing (the student) about the give-and-take of conversations,” Buckley said. “You might have to teach them that another person might not be interested in talking about trains for an hour,” Buckley said. Jayne Hiltz credits the social and academic network behind her son for much of the boy’s progress. She said he is making strides both socially and academically, and said everyone from school administrators to Neil’s own sister Elizabeth, 13, play important roles in his development. This development can be seen in all areas of Neil’s life. Events that used to be traumatic now pass nearly unnoticed, Jayne Hiltz said. For example, she said a recent trip to the dentist did not prove nearly as distressing as she might have expected. After the visit to the dentist was over, Jayne rewarded her son the best way she knew how. She took him to Wal-Mart to look at vacuum cleaners. |
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